If this sounds like you I’d love to chat.

You've got a wardrobe full of clothes, but most mornings it's a struggle to put together an outfit that makes you feel F*ck Yeah!

When you open the door, there's a collection of things you've bought hoping they'd finally help you show up the way you honestly feel inside. Vibrant. Colourful. Fully yourself.

The printed shirt you bought on holiday that you loved in the shop but have never worn. The jacket with the bold print and tassels that's never made it out into the world. The balloon pants you love but have no idea how to style. The drawer full of statement earrings and necklaces you keep meaning to do something with.

And yet, despite all of these things, you still reach for the same black. The same safe, predictable outfit that doesn't come close to reflecting who you actually are.

You've got loads of individual pieces, none of which feel like they actually speak to each other or work together to create outfits that feel like you.

And underneath all of it (if you're being honest), you live with a quiet bit of regret. Maybe even some shame about how much money went into a wardrobe that still leaves you standing there every morning thinking "I have nothing to wear."

Maybe some of this sounds familiar too:

• You've changed a lot over the last few years, but your outfits haven't caught up yet.

• You used to enjoy getting dressed, but it has become something you tolerate rather than something that expresses who you are.

• Your personality is vibrant and expressive, but what you're wearing every day doesn't come close to reflecting that.

• You find yourself avoiding things: social plans, photos, video calls, putting yourself out there in your business, because you just can't face the decision of what to wear, or because you know what you're wearing doesn't reflect who you actually are.

• You'd love your outfits to feel more interesting and expressive, but you end up dressing on autopilot and choosing the same safe options because you don't really know what else to do.

• You feel like you've ended up in a box and you're not entirely sure how you got there or how to get out.

• And somewhere underneath all of that is a quiet voice going: I'm a grown-ass woman. Why can't I just figure this out? Why can't I just get dressed in outfits I actually love?

If you're nodding, I'd love to talk to you.

I'm Sarah, a personal style coach and wardrobe strategist for women over 40, and I'm in the process of creating something new. Before I build it, I want to speak to real women about their real experience with this.

I do not want to sell you anything. I want to listen to you and hear about your real lived challenges and frustrations.

If any of the above sounds like you, I'd love 45 minutes of your time.

In return, I'll give you time at the end of the call to ask me anything about your own style — it my way of saying thank you for your time and honesty.

Everything is completely confidential.