If this sounds like you I’d love to chat.

You've got a wardrobe full of clothes —but none of it feels like you.

You open the door, and there's a collection of things you've bought in an attempt to be more expressive and reconnect to a creative part of yourself that somewhere along the way got a little lost.

The printed shirt you bought on holiday that you loved in the shop and have never worn. The jacket with the gemstones and tassels that's never made it out into the world. The balloon pants you love but have no idea how to style. The drawer full of statement earrings and necklaces you keep meaning to do something with.

Individual pieces, none of which you feel actually speak to each other or work together to create outfits that feel like you.

And underneath all of it (if you're being honest), you have a quiet bit of regret. Maybe even some shame about how much money went into a wardrobe that still leaves you standing there every morning thinking “I have nothing to wear.”

Maybe some of this sounds familiar too:

• You open your wardrobe and feel uninspired, even though there's plenty in there.

• You've changed a lot over the last few years, but your clothes haven't caught up yet.

• There's a creative, expressive part of you that feels buried — and you're not entirely sure when that happened or how to get her back.

• You tend to reach for the same safe options, and somewhere underneath that, you know that's not the whole story.

• You're not after a shopping list or someone to tell you what to wear. You want to actually understand yourself better through this.

If you're nodding, I'd love to talk to you.

I'm Sarah, a personal style coach and wardrobe strategist for women over 40 and I'm in the process of creating something new, and before I build it I want to speak to real women about their real experience with this.

I do not want to sell you anything; I want to listen to you and hear about your real lived challenges and frustrations.

If any of the above sounds like you, I'd love 45 minutes of your time.

In return, I'll give you time at the end of the call to ask me anything about your own style — I normally charge £75 for this kind of conversation, so it's my way of saying thank you for your time and honesty.

Everything is completely confidential.